Now, I am talking with regards to a particular race… blacks although it might apply to all races, but as I am black, they are the only ones I can talk about. Anyway, along the way, romance seems to have become the least important thing in the grand scheme of things. Not that we blacks are not romantic, it just seems that voluntarily expressing our affections sometimes can be seen as a sign of weakness. Now, I am just as guilty of this as every other guy, and it can take some prompting and prodding for me to attempt to do anything romantic. Although I do have to admit that seeing the smile on your girls face when you eventually do can make it all worth it.

Just curious, are you guys romantic by choice or demand?